As the new year 2024 entered, I fill my cup with optimism and strive to live the old behind; another family dysfunction disappointment, my child facing homelessness for the first time (not the first for me).
I relieve the feelings of suicide that refuse to remain buried. Solo single parenting is kicking my ass, has me by a chokehold. How can I ever make it when being a mom takes precedence; I can’t take work opportunities that will allow me to barely pay the bills and I’m reduced to only contemplate opportunities that will not even bring us semi afloat, always having to choose the latter.
With no one to truly understand, because I’ve learned single parenting is like a social class and I am at the lowest bottom. since 9years old, I’ve questioned my existence, now as a mother, it doesn’t seem to cease. I ask God for a quick and easy painless end, for my soul is tired and I wish to not repeat this again.
I have held on for you my beautiful loving child, but mom is broken; spiritually, physically and emotionally. I have been for years through no fault of your own. Life has just been heavy, a load which has became difficult to continue to carry on.
I don’t know what else to do. I hang on for your sake, yet the pain is too great, the uncertainties, the inability to continuaron to do this on my own. Can I hold on until you’re old enough to allow for some wiggle room? I am drowning, desperate, walls against a wall.
Mom is broken, despite my brokenness, I pray for ton to have and a happy all that I never did. I pray you have stability, genuine love, success, a soft-gentle life, that all your wildest dreams come true and much more.
Mom is broken, yet I love you through my brokenness, picking each broken piece day by day trying to piece them together to fight for you; I do think of what pain my absence in life might cause you. I love you amidst my brokenness my heart.